Attention, please!

Ok, I do not understand how some adults can not pay attention to what is going on in a group of kids.

I was at work yesterday (watching the 2 munchkins I nanny) and a friend had come over to play. Now, the kids I watch are a 5 year old girl and a 2 year old boy, and this friend was a 9 year old girl, so I thought "Cool, this kid is older, watching her should be a breeze". Wrong! This little girl needed to be instructed just a tad...on not provoking other kids, on telling the truth, and on not back-talking adults. :-O Of course, it wasn't my job to do that, but I sure would have liked to film her actions and play it back for her parents!

Do parents just not pay attention any more?? When I was a kid, if I went to a friend's house, I was always on my best behavior...at the least, when the adults were around! I knew if their parents or my parents saw me misbehaving, I was in serious trouble. However, this little girl seemed oblivious to the fact that I was within 20 feet of her at all times and could see/hear everything she did with the other kids. It's as if she didn't expect to be reprimanded for bad actions! Well, I think I surprised her a little. :-) I was my usual calm, poised nanny self, but I made it very clear lying to me and intentionally aggravating the other kids was not acceptable behavior.

So my plea is: Adults! Please pay attention! In this age of multi-tasking, I would think we are all skilled to do at least 2 things at once. Yes, have that conversation with your friend, but keep one ear open to the little tots fighting over the toy. Often the loudest kid is NOT the culprit. Sure, read that book you can't put down, but at least peek over the pages occasionally to see WHY the kids are yelling at each other, not just tell them to quiet down...or worse, (this is my personal pet peeve), IGNORE THEM COMPLETELY! ??? Trust me, it's not going to get any quieter just because you pretend it isn't happening. Plus, you are probably going to over-react once your "noisy kid" tolerance level has been breached!

We are raising the next generation here! Children are not just fashionable accessories...you know, "I have to have one, just like all my friends". They are a glimpse of our future. Let's treat them accordingly!

Great page with a ton of pregnancy links

My mom just sent me this link and I am amazed at all the great links that are on here:

http://www.heartofwisdom.com/heartathome/2008/06/26/pregnancy-and-childbirth-links/

I am also going to add this to my links >

Here we go...

Well folks, my family and friends have been telling me I should start a blog, so...since I have already succumb to Facebook and Twitter as well as my own website, I thought "what the heck!" Welcome to my musings!

A little bit about yours truly: I am a 20-something gal who has had some interesting adventures in my life so far. I have been a nanny/au pair for quite a few years, here in the States a couple of times and also for 2 years in the beautiful country of Switzerland. Ah, die Schweiz! I am also a DONA-certified birth doula and a montrice-in-training. I find it such an awesome privilege to witness the birth of new life into the world. On top of that, I am the wife of a wonderful husband, oldest of 6 kids, homeschool graduate and world-traveler. :-)

This interesting mish-mash of experience has left me with some thoughts and opinions. I hope you find them stimulating and thought-provoking!